Digging for G[old] stuff...

Since I started summer school today, I've been up since 6am and now I'm stuck home, alone...which led me to finding this in E's blog...thought it was useful, not just for me, but for many others!

so J... being the 'BAUCE' that she is, shares a bit of knowledge and reasoning that i noticed just happens to be stored in our minds naturally...

after several minutes of trying to calm her down she's like

"aye. u just gotta realize that girls and dudes aredifferent. you can't expect him to react the same way u would in a situation. in his mind, he was being REALconsiderate just by answering your call on a saturday night while he's out with his friends in the first place... on TOP of pausing his night, he attempts to calm u down and make u feel better instead of just sayin 'lemme call u back'... of course you're gonna be rushed off the phone, who would wanna have a deep ass discussion on a saturday night while they're out with their buddies and shit? ur trippen right now,just go to sleep."

She was referring to me, J, in case you ain't know! Not on some conceited, tooting my own horn kinda shit, but yeah I do give some bomb advice. Seek it if you need it :)

some shit that's been circling in my noggin...

you never forget who your number one is. they make it hard to remember anyone else.

it's imperative that it's mutual tho... or else you set yourself up to be played... be confident with where you and the one you love stand. and don't forget your agreements and promises... they're made for a reason...

u don't wanna be a victim of this particular agreement, would you?:

*takes place some time before saaaaay... one of these two leave for a long trip* 

"attractive male: u think we should have a nice open relationship?

attractive male: cause i kno i will always put u b4 anybody else

fine young lady: yea same here

fine young lady: but define open...

attractive male: everybody else pretty much gets played

fine young lady: lmao"

then again... how would you know?

it's really easy to get caught up in some dumb shit...

really... easy

But for other things, I make sure to go to this beezie, E, and she gives me this...well something like it. That's just how we work :)